Forgive

I wish someone read this as this is one of my resolution for this year. Share the lights with my colleagues and management, especially management.

I shall forgive them. For their ego, always put the blame on those that left rather than looking at themselves seriously.

I shall forgive them. For always spread their anger to those that they used to take granted for. Because they are not in total control of their mind.

I shall forgive them. For spoilt their elder childs in the big family and feel the pain only now. Though realizing the pain, the path to turn back is narrow, therefore it take much effort to do so and have to bear all the consequenses.

I shall forgive them. For seeing lots of doubts in others, because they have fear in their mind, because they have fear of losing the power to control.

I shall forgive them. For myself, for the sake of those that need to be supported, for those that need to be guided, for those that need to be enlightened.

I shall forgive them in order for me to have the courage to continue in these "Journey of Learning" and "Journey of Letting GO"

怎么教? 怎么改?

就对上个星期六回母校申请公函,遇到一名年龄介于五六十岁间的男教师.谈起我们的国家栋梁.安排了接见问题学生的父母,追根究底才赫然发现原来父母的问题比那学生的问题更大. 老师叹气道 " 怎么教? "

同样的状况发生在职场上,费尽力气心机想把公司的状况搞好,慢慢才发觉原来基本问题不在于员工,而是老板们. 唉... " 怎么改? "